Chez Vilardi 👨‍🍳

Grilled lamb chops on a stovetop grill with a hand using tongs to turn them, alongside a cast iron pan of crispy hash browns and various cooking ingredients in the background.
Joe’s classic grilled veal chops.

Few people know how good friends Joe and I are. I have known Joe well for about 15 years, when he was in his fifties! I met Joe when he was the famed proprietor and owner of Bellevue’s esteemed Bis on Main restaurant. By far the best restaurant in the greater Seattle area under Joe’s fine stewardship, but also my favorite place to dine. I had all of my family’s birthday dinners there, a couple of company-wide holiday parties, and dinners with special friends such as Ron and Bonnie Elgin. For many years, there was no better place to dine, drink, and be merry with friends and strangers.

In the mid-2010s, Joe and I began cooking for each other at our respective homes, which we affectionately referred to as our Iron Chef sessions. It became a serious affair with each of us trying to one-up the other with exceptionally planned and executed meals. It became so severe and intense, with extreme competition, that we had a trophy made, which the victor would keep until they lost a competition.

Since then, Joe has graciously hosted me and some combination of my kids over the years, serving up truly heartfelt meals where we share friendship, fatherhood, wine, and fantastic food – all paid for and prepared by Joe! Thank you, Vilardius.

The following is a collection of the many meals we have enjoyed at Chez Vilardi.

A close-up of a shiny silver trophy with decorative handles, inscribed with the name 'Villardiu'. Surrounding it are hints of greenery and festive decor.
The current winner.

Needless to say, in addition to running an exceptional restaurant, Joe is an excellent chef, so much so that I choose to acquiesce to his greatness, let him cook for me at his home, and graciously let the trophy rest well at his domicile. I have not held it in possession for years. Joe thinks I’m a cheap chickenshit and won’t cook for him at my house.

Joe also has an exceptional wine cellar that he generously shares with Carter and me.

Wines

Two glasses of red wine filled to different levels, placed on a countertop with a blurred kitchen background.
A variety of wine bottles displayed on a kitchen countertop, including both empty and full bottles from different vineyards.
The damage in one evening

Veal Milanese

Joe prepared a classic Italian dish, true to his heritage, Veal Milanese. It was accompanied by sauteed haricots vertes and larger string beans.

A chef holding a breaded veal chop above a frying pan in a modern kitchen, wearing an apron and a checkered shirt.
A tray of crispy, breaded veal chops resting on paper towels, showcasing their golden brown texture.
Chops for Vilardius, Hadlandius, Jack, Carter, and Charlie. Father-son dinners are the best.
A pan filled with red tomato sauce, garnished with herbs, sits on a stove next to a smaller pan with remnants of sautéed garlic.
A person stirring a pot of pasta in a modern kitchen, wearing an apron and a checkered shirt, looking content.
A wooden countertop with a cutting board displaying minced garlic, a knife, and various cooking utensils. Nearby are bowls of asparagus and green beans, a glass of white wine, and seasonings.
Mise en place – a true master, Vilardi is!
A plate featuring a breaded veal cutlet accompanied by sautéed sugar snap peas and a mix of colorful roasted peppers.
A true masterpiece!

Grilled Veal Chops

Next up is one of Joe’s specialties and one of my favorite dishes he cooks, grilled veal chops. His prep course was a lovely, dungeoness crab wasabi salad in lettuce cups. A true Northwest meets Asia delicacy.

A person in an apron prepares food in a modern kitchen, mixing ingredients in a bowl, with plates of lettuce nearby.
A chef smiling and holding a mixing bowl filled with ingredients, surrounded by cooking utensils and fresh produce in a modern kitchen.

I always pay close attention, savoring copious glasses of fine wine, learning from the master, Viladrius. Joe has truly upped by cooking game.

Two wine glasses filled with red wine on a kitchen countertop, with wine bottles in the background and kitchen utensils visible.
Three friends posing together in a kitchen with a large inflatable chicken between them. The scene has a warm and cheerful atmosphere.

Charlie the Chicken made a special guest appearance.

A smiling man in an apron holds a large plate of meat in a modern kitchen.
It was time for the blessed veal chops.
Grilling veal chops on a barbecue grill with smoke rising and warm lighting.
Two men standing near a grill smoking while preparing food, one wearing an apron and the other dressed casually, in a warm indoor setting.
Joe and Carter at the grill.
Table set with wine bottles, glasses, and a candle, creating an inviting dining atmosphere.

Grilled Veal Chops Part Deux

One may notice a trend here: Joe only prepares veal chops. He may be a one-trick pony, but boy, can that pony turn tricks. The only way I can discriminate between Joe’s meals is by the different shirts he wears.

Plate of marinated grilled veal chops seasoned with herbs, resting on a decorative plate on a kitchen counter.
A marble countertop with three plates: one with blue cheese, another with thinly sliced meats wrapped in plastic, and a third with large, marinated veal chops ready for cooking.
A person wearing an apron pours wine from a bottle into a decanter on a dining table, surrounded by wine glasses and a candle.
Master Somm.
Two smiling men posing for a selfie in a kitchen setting, one wearing a blue blazer and the other in a plaid shirt.
Grilled veal chops cooking in a cast iron skillet over an open flame, generating smoke.
A man in an apron preparing food in a modern kitchen, surrounded by fresh vegetables, a mixing bowl, and various cooking utensils.
A man in a checked shirt and apron prepares a salad in a modern kitchen, with kitchenware and ingredients visible around him.
A person grilling veal chops on a cast iron skillet, focused on cooking in a dimly lit interior.
A chef grilling meat on a barbecue while holding two plates of food, one with slices of meat and bell peppers, and another with a large grilled chop and sides.
A beautifully plated dish featuring grilled veal chops with a side of sautéed mixed vegetables, including peppers and squash, against a kitchen backdrop.
A beautifully plated dish featuring a grilled veal chop topped with a dollop of butter, accompanied by a mix of roasted vegetables including zucchini, carrots, and potatoes.
A chef in a kitchen plating food on blue plates, surrounded by various cookware and ingredients.
A plated dish featuring grilled veal chops topped with mushrooms, accompanied by assorted sautéed vegetables including zucchini and bell peppers, presented on a blue and white plate.
A true masterpiece – if Joe ever ran a restaurant, I would surely dine there!
A glass decanter filled with red wine on a dining table, accompanied by a water bottle and various dishes in the background.

Grilled Veal Chops Part Trois

Two men sharing a warm embrace at a restaurant, with one man playfully kissing the other's cheek.
A man holding a bottle of Pol Roger champagne in a modern kitchen, wearing a light blue shirt.

A plate of marinated grilled veal chops, seasoned with herbs and sliced onions, ready for cooking.
A person in a white apron is pouring olive oil from a large can into a mixing bowl while whisking ingredients in a kitchen setting.
Grilled veal chop served with sautéed haricots vertes, string beans, and a side of shredded lettuce.
Perfection again.

To McIntosh HiFi & Friendship

A McIntosh audio system with multiple components including a turntable, displayed on a modern shelf. The turntable features a yellow vinyl record, with various audio CDs visible overhead.

Joe inspired me to elevate my HiFi game, as I have, over the many visits and years, admired his McIntosh setup, especially the large dual monoblock amps, vintage tuner, CD player, and quaint vinyl player. My setup is below. Thanks for the inspiration, Vilardius!

A high-end audio setup featuring multiple McIntosh components including amplifiers and speakers, with a large TV displaying music content in a room illuminated by blue lighting.
Two men smiling together in a restaurant setting, one wearing a blue blazer and the other in a white shirt with a purple tie.
Joe and I are at Bis on Main. I sure miss Joe there!
Two friends smiling for a selfie, with a colorful abstract painting in the background.

With all the Verite in my heart and stomach, this depicts the nature of our friendship. Vilardius, you are a true friend, and I am much better for having you in my life. I love and adore you, Hadlandius! Time for me to regain the trophy!

True friendship in action!

I also want to express my gratitude to Joe, as he generously gave Carter his first job, working as a busboy at Bis on Main. That’s what many corporate holidays I sponsored at Bis, years of extravagant birthday dinners, and dining there multiple times a week for over 10 years, upping my wine orders from mediocre Washington wines to the finest Napa produced, such as Spottswoode and Opus One, and hundreds of thousands of dollars keeping him afloat got me. You’re welcome!

Joe sold Bis on Main in late 2023. Sad for me, but great for Joe to retire in style. One of his most significant legacies is his eponymous cookbook, ‘Bis on Main’. It is, by far, one of the best-written and photographed tomes on cooking I have ever read. I proudly keep my copy in my kitchen for quick reference to recipes from which many memories originated, and for the writing that reflects the career of a great human, and serves as a good guide on how to live one’s life. I love the photos of all the staff who became friends over the years, and I cherish them greatly. Upon Joe’s departure, he gifted Carter the host station copy—a beat-up, dog-eared book with marked-up pages—a generous gift and a lasting legacy of what Joe had given to so many people in the community. I genuinely love you, my friend! Hadlandius.

A cookbook titled 'bis on main' by Joe Vilardi, featuring images of dishes and people dining.
Buy this book!
A handwritten envelope addressed to Hadlandius in colorful letters, featuring a snowman and a reindeer on stamps, dated December 16, 2024.
Still on the mailing list!

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